Saturday, November 19, 2011
Saturday, September 10, 2011
it doesn't happen to me, but a dear friend of mine and i can feel the pain as well.
people, life is short, just don't be fake lah. your friends may like how of a person you are, admire your capability, like to befriend with you because of who you are. Well, you might be wary of befriending with others due to your wealthiness, but your act has demolished the value of a friend.
i believe the world is beautiful without you.
Friday, August 12, 2011
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
life is great, and i will learn to ignore like 'you' to be happier person like 'you'. :)
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Let's face it. We all go through times when we think we've gotten a raw deal in life. We think life is unfair or even that God is unfair. Our anger builds up. We stomp around in a nastymood looking for an excuse to snap at someone.
We feel entitled to our snit. We've been treated unjustly, and we're looking for revenge. Of course it doesn't make sense to attack an innocent bystander who says something questionable, but we don't care. We're full of bile and want to let some out.
Yikes! Is that any way to live?
Time to outgrow some things
The spiritually and emotionally mature person understands when it's time tomove on. Living in the past--always looking behind you--gives you a permanent kink in the neck, and that's painful.Two year-old children throw tantrums and even though it's obnoxious, we tend to overlook it because of their age. In thirty year-olds, it's downright scary.
Carrying a chip on your shoulder harms you the most. People steer away from you; you're like a vicious dog that may bite with the slightest provocation. Friendships fall apart. The more people avoid you, the morebitter you get.
We hear so much and read so much about people demanding their rights. Everyone has to be so politically correct because people have a chip on their shoulder from some wrong done to them in the past. Maybe it wasn't even done to them personally, but to the group they belong to. They carry a grudge and just wait for somebody to offend them.
Many singles tend to be defensive anyway. Carrying a chip on your shoulder does more harm than good, though."